Many people get confused between what is love and what is liking and what is attraction?? In our teens all of us have experienced this and also got trapped in these three words without differentiating what is what. Well this is the main reason why so many people break up and again patch up or at the end become strangers and what not. There will be so many people around us confusing us , distracting us and we end up doing stupid things which we feel that it is right at that time. Attraction is the only thing which many people confuse for love. For instance, when a girl looks beautiful or when a guy is handsome then the girl starts dreaming of that boy as how it would be if he was his boyfriend and similarly the boy also thinks in the same way. Well!! Now it’s time to solve that confusion as people are committing many mistakes in this mixed confusion of feelings.
I would like to share a story of a girl who was also confused between love and attraction just like many other teens. The girl used to like every boy she found attractive including movie stars , celebrities and even her classmates but she just kept all those feeling wishing her because as soon as she finds another handsome guy , she tends to forget the other guy and it went like that until one day the boy whom she found attractive has proposed her. She just accepted that proposal without thinking anything because she found him attractive at that moment and she had her dream of dating a boy and having a boyfriend is coming true. Well on the other side, even the boy who proposed that girl was also only attracted to this cute and beautiful girl and hence challenged his friends that he would propose her and had a bet with his friends. Since the girl accepted , he won the bet with his friends which the girl was unaware and inturn that boy became the hero of their so called gang.They bunked classes and had fun and did a lot of things.As days passed by, both got admission in different colleges and inturn they did made new friends . Now that girl found other boys attractive and to her surprise even they liked her a lot and even they got attracted and proposed her . She was confused what to do as she already had a boy friend in other college and in that confusion she started roaming with them and got close to them and inturn forgot about her boyfriend. The same case happened with that boy also.After few days , when girl met that guy , they had no sort of feelings for each other , they just met and had nothing for each other because now they were attracted to other people and hence they decided never to meet again because they had no reason to meet and had someone else in their lives.
Well, this kind of situation happens with many people and most of the time do not understand what they are doing. When people get attracted or people like someone , they must be in control and do not get into any sort of relationships without understanding whether they are attracted to that person or whether they just like that person and in this confusion makes them think they love each other and just keep telling everyone that he/she is their life partner and get committed by taking hasty decision and later get bored of that person . So whenever this kind of attraction or liking starts for a person , one must think twice or thrice before proposing or accepting a proposal and also think about whether they will have the same kind of feeling over years. So it is very important for a person to first focus on his career and if at all he/she has same kind of feel on that particular person over years and doesn’t get attracted to any person in between , then it would be a correct time for expressing his like or love for the other person and there would be no confusion between love and attraction .